Friday, July 16, 2021

When the thunder rolls

Thunder

Friday night I was  awakened to the sound of thunder.  I listened and felt like I had experienced “thunder rolling “!  I would start and then roll like a truck rumbling away. Someone in the branch described it as the sound of bowling. I was grateful for the experience.  It was so cool.  After Covid and now being so far outside of town, I sometimes find myself feeling isolated. I have to be cognizant of my groceries as there’s is no store for 25 miles. 


The journey to get to the  Senior Center in Kansas required me to drive 25 miles on dirt roads and make a lot of turns.  I was concerned about finding my way, but I asked Heavenly Father to help me recall the turns. He answered my prayer perfectly. Along the way across many Creeks and saw a blue heron and snapping turtle. The fields are green trees reservoirs and ponds along the way. It was so beautiful I could hardly take it in!




 Yesterday‘s event at the senior center turned out pretty well. The people were very kind. Everyone stood and said the pledge of allegiance and then one of the men offered a prayer over the food After the prayer everyone lined up for the lunch meal which was tater tot casserole. It was delicious!  It was served with a tossed salad and a banana. 
Below are pictures of the outside and the jail that replaced the original one after the fire.

Swinging Bridge





The Pawhuska Swinging Bridge from LINK

There aren't many of them left, but the few swinging bridges that are still around bring back a lot of good memories for many Oklahomans.

It's creaks and squeaks when you walk across.

If the old woods planks on Pawhuska's old swinging bridge could talk, oh, the stories they would tell.

“There's all kinds of stories,” said Pawhuska Resident Frank Curry.

But since the bridge can't talk, Frank Curry will.

“I've seen people cross it on motorcycles before,” Curry stated. “If they'd a got caught, they'd probably be going to jail,” he laughed.  

Curry lives right next to Pawhuska's swinging bridge. He's been using it to cross the creek since he was a kid.

 “We'd come up here and cross the bridge and go up there and practice basketball,” he recalled.

Crossing the bridge isn't for everyone, especially those afraid of heights because when the creek's low, the bridge suspends some 30 feet over the water.

“On a windy, I don't like getting out on it,” said Curry.

A high fence adds a little extra protection, but it wasn't always that way Frank says.

“This fence used to be right here,” he explained. “It wasn't this kind of wire; it was right here. It was kind of scary.”

The bridge was built in 1926 and as the story goes, it was at one time the only way folks could get across Bird Creek and into the town of Pawhuska.

Now folks swing by the bridge just to see it and snap some pictures.

“It's kind of rarity,” said Garrett Hartness of the Osage County Historical Society and Museum. “You're not just gonna go anywhere and find a swinging bridge.”

Hartness says the bridge is a regular stop for tourists these days, and it's still a play place for children or a shortcut across the creek for pets.

But, more than anything, the old swinging bridge is a special piece of Pawhuska history.

I had to hold on tight, as Elder Himle kept rocking the bridge!

Calvalcade

Last night we bought tickets for the Cavalcade.  It's like a roping event for amateurs!  Patriotic!  They began with a prayer and it was so quiet during the prayer you could hear a pin drop.  We find people here extremely polite and respectful.  This event was huge!!

Checkout the clouds above as we walk from the parking lot.  We got a lot of rain at the ranch and woke up to fog and 98% humidity!

Above, the missionaries spent Saturday morning installing a handicap ramp for a ward member.  Top left, the wind generators are in the clouds.  Right:  The movie set included a bakery shop.  This is the window.

Below, is the parade for Cavalcade, which was 90% horses and a couple other things like the bull and stage coach.  While the elders sweated in 78% humidity and heat installing the deck, we went downtown and drank lemonade and ate pastries from the Pioneer Women's store... which were some of the best I have ever eaten--all homemade!   Bottom right are some things from the store including a cast iron skillet in the shape of Oklahoma for only $99.00!  
The Pioneer Women's store is VERY popular.  Sometimes there were 50 people in line for the pastries.
It is very picked over at this point, but what they have is so good.

QUILTING


For those of you who know me, you'll be surprised that I managed to sew some quilt blocks together!  Then the other sisters came over (that live on the ranch where we live) and helped me complete it.  Tomorrow we are holding a quilting get-together (is this a quilting bee?).  Wish me luck!



Yep.  That's a John Deer tractor in the quilt.
Sister Johnson and I
And yes, we are still smiling... taking it one day at a time

Wednesday, July 14, 2021

Abandoned (and houses that look haunted)

 We definitely live in the middle of no where and have long distances to drive on a regular basis.  When I drive I cross many creeks and "low water bridges".  These bridges aren't aways safe to cross after a large storm.  When I see the "lollipop water tower" in the distance, I know I am not lost.  

  We reside on the Foraker Unit, which originally belonged to Boots Adams (the CEO of Phillips Petroleum).  There is a lake which is just a short walk away which is called Adams Lake.  There is a giant plane hangar here as well.  Below on the bottom right is the old mansion, which is abandoned and not safe.  Top right is Boots Adams cooks home (also abandoned).  Yes, I went in and explored.

We welcomed the (Dave and Debbie) Runnells yesterday and had a nice dinner with them at our place.  David and Barbara Johnson fixed sloppy joes, watermelon and other yummy food, and the rest of us filled in around their food.  The sun-rises and sun-sets are spectacular!  With the Runnells, we have two Daves, two Barbara's, two Debbies, one Wes, one Kathy and one Dennis!  Is that weird or what?

Having independent male missionaries means a lot of strong opinions, and the need to petition the Lord for help us in showing respect and kindness in decisions (when each feels strongly that his way is correct).


I worked, distributing food at Christ's cupboard this week.  We also ministered (trying to find members who disappeared during covid, etc.  

Tomorrow I will talk to the seniors in Cedarvale Kansas around noon and encourage them to record memories.  I stumbled across an article about that town and the train that held German soldiers the other day and will also share that story with them.  I was amazed and surprised at the account of the German Soldiers!  

 Here is a picture of one and the Main Street of town.
And there are still saloons out here! 


Ceviche Sister De Los Reyes  made

One of the houses we went to had a porch that looked haunted.  A dog barked inside and I half expected to see Herman Monster answer the door


Dinner with the gang consists of some eating and a whole lot of laughing!!

Monday, July 12, 2021

Fireflies and Stars

 July 12, 2021

FireFlies

Last night I turned the lights out in the house where we are living and stood beside the window in the dark and watched the spark of fireflies outside.  Hey were so beautiful and bright and I felt so grateful to Heavenly Father for this creation!  It reminds me of the world we live in.  Sometimes watching the news reports leaves me feeling like our world is getting dark.  I think that like the fireflies, kindness and compassion for our fellow man is like the  sparks in the darkness, and each spark lights up someone who is in need.

We watched a "hallmark" type movie this week and one of the themes was "Home isn't a place, but a feeling".   I've pondered this (especially on my mission) and decided that was probably a true statement.  

The Cat

We have a cat.  No one claims the cat.  I'm pretty sure the cat keeps the mice down out here. Since we arrived, each evening the cat shows up.  The missionaries that were already here gave clear instructions "DON'T FEED THE CAT!"  It wasn't a problem for me, as I am allergic to them.  But they didn't have to listen to it cry in our bedroom window night after night after night.  One night I walked to the window and without even lifting the blinds said, "Kitty, you need to go away.  No one wants you here."  As if understanding my words, the cat left.  I felt haunted by my words.  Do animals understand our words?  The donkey in Numbers 22:28 understood and it complains about Balaam's treatment him.  Joseph Smith himself counseled against treating animal unkindly, so I did the unspeakable and gave the cat some cream.  The cat didn't cry at all.  The cat also seemed lonely.  So I am treating "The Cat" to some milk or cream each evening... and not hearing it cry.  Even bending over to set the bowl down makes my nose itch like there is no tomorrow!  But it feels right to show kindness and we aren't going to sleep to constant crying....





Thursday, July 8, 2021

GINORMOUS Mushrooms, Wet shoes, and Humidity

Before I start, I just wanted to thank those of you who take a moment to comment and encourage us!  We so appreciate those sweet notes of love! They lift us us when we are tired.

Above is what my sunrises and sunsets look like.  Though similar, I stand in awe of God's beauty each time!

Below is Sister De Los Reyes and Johnson helping me find graves (people request photos on-line) to upload to Find A Grave.  My feet got soaked (walking through the grass) and smelled like vinegar all day. No one said a word but me.  Its not like I could rush  right home to change shoes, as home is 45 minutes away.  Afterwards we went to Bartlesville and donated quilts at Youth Protection and BirthRight.  They (and we) were received with so much gratitude!  

Pictures below of a sister lunch and a beautiful sunset.

Today  (July 8th) I was in charge of giving the morning devotional.  Afterward we drove into town and worked at Christ's Cupboard (loading food for the hungry with women of other faiths).  Our church also contributes to the food pantry.  It was warm and wonderful and the time went fast!

Ok!  Let's talk about large mushrooms!  The mushroom below (which I found these in the cemetery) were larger than dinner plates!!

The three children below are part of the local branch (church).  There is a ghost story about "Green Eyes" that is talked about in the area, so after church I saw the kids in the parking lot I asked them if they knew about "Green Eyes".  In the cutest southern accents on the planet, I heard, "Oh, yes Mam!"  I asked them to tell me about it and they did.  They delighted me as they related the story in their beautiful accents.  Here is the story if you are interested.  Sister De los Reyes says that driving across that bridge at night scares the 'you know what’ out of her but claims it is beautiful in the day.  She says it reminds her of "Sleepy Hollow".  Even missions can use a good ghost story!  So here is the story.


Pawhuska - Green Eyes The story behind green eyes is unclear nobody really knows what happened but it is rumored that a man went crazy and drove his car that had his 2 children and his wife over the bridge and they drowned. Also, Ive heard an Osage Woman who was a witch was killed in this area of the creek for being evil. If you go over green eyes bridge at midnight and turn off your lights you will see two green eyes and when you turn on your lights to see what it is there is nothing there. Regardless, this is right near the Bird Creek School and the whole area in itself gives off a creepy feeling-daylight OR dark!  



In the middle of the picture above, Wes stands inside of an airplane hanger which is very close to our home.  It use to house the plane of Frank Phillips (Phillips 66) back in the day.  

Lots of rabbits and turtles... did I say that again.  Well, let me say it one more time... lots of them.

Even though we live in the middle of no where, tonight the neighbors girls brought us over two large slices of the best chocolate cake I think I have ever eaten!  My mouth is still watering!

73% humidity... My skin and nose love it.  My hair-- Let's just say that I could audition as a witch!

What is Elder Himle (Wes) doing?  Hmmmmm.  I have been asking for pictures and I finally got some.  He told me he has been skinning the pig pen and barn.  skinning? I asked.  That means putting the siding on. In the first picture (below) you can see the before and after.

Row two is in Ponca, Oklahoma where we went for groceries.  It's a huge statue called Pioneer woman.  The house is a picture I took.  It was listed for $199,000.  Wow.  Next is Wes in his happy place (eating Braun ice-cream).  Bottom left is what looks like a potato bug levitating.
Family of skunks in the field next to us.  The Reindeer tree we see on the way to town.  After Church we did a pot luck at the ranch office in Pawhuska.  To its right was a huge spider that was on the brick outside our door.  The other sister was in the process of taking her shoe off, when I said "Hold on!"  I got a stick and removed it and through it into the grass.  Bottom left is the Arkansas River which look more like a lake than a river!

Below is a larger picture of the people at the pot luck.  We had homemade tamales, Italian chicken over rice, Flam, eclair dish, rice, etc.   The couple on the left was included as they live way out here like we do.  The one on the right is the ranch manager whose wife is out of town.  She is traveling from place to place barrel racing and I believe has just beat the world record.  He name is Wenda Johnson.  She is also the branch Relief Society President.


Tomorrow morning around 4:30am, eleven semi trucks should be rolling in her to pickup cattle.  It's going to get noisy!

I heard coyotes the other night!  Down pours aren't uncommon and we LOVE the rain!!

Today we looked at the window and argued about where that was a cow pie or a turtle in the road in front of our house.  Elder Himle went out... it was a turtle! A snapping turtle.

Sunday, July 4, 2021

The Smallest Parade Ever

 We went into Pawhuska and walked through the Pioneer Woman Store yesterday.  It was packed with people who had come there just for that!  It is a beautiful store/restaurant that has been updated, yet still fits in the old style town.  A small parade made itself down the street and lasted about 5 minutes.  Charming, but small!

Afterwards we went and took photos of the movie set (They are filming the Killers of the Flower Moon). Then over to the Chamber of Commerce for a delicious hot dog and the best home-made apple pie I believe I have ever eaten!  I am living in Foraker and if you look at the map, you will see where it is in relation to Pawhuska.


I spent time with Sister Barbara Johnson indexing a grave yard to send to find a grave this week. Wild, White mushrooms grew nearby.  We are seeing turtles on the road constantly.  I found a mouse in the laundry room and disposed of it (Not a problem... my mission to Hawaii made this a piece of cake). We are following another missionary couple through a low water bridge and I am wondering if this is such a good idea!
Later on Saturday we visited the TallGrass Prairie Preserve (not far from our home). Those bison looked fat and well fed!  The prairie grass reminds me of a meadow in the tall Uinta's.  It is definitely not the grass the cattle feed on.  The grass along the roads was very tall.

We are enjoying our mission and serving with such amazing elders and sisters! So fun.  Time to get ready for church (it is a 45 minute drive).


Thursday, July 1, 2021

Bats, Calves and Tepee rings

 It was Sunday afternoon.  We were beat as we had put in some long hours trying to finish up all the projects, which continued to grow.  We went upstairs to take a nap.  Wes fell asleep immediately, but I couldn't sleep.  I could hear this gnawing sound.  "What were the dogs chewing on?"  Still the sound continued and I couldn't fall asleep.  I lay there, while Wes napped, and about 45 minutes later he woke and said, "Did you get some sleep?"  

I explained that the sound of the gnawing kept me from it, and got up and went downstairs and opened the door to see what they were gnawing on.  Strange,  I thought.  The dogs aren't even out here?!

I went back upstairs and reported what I hadn't seen.  Wes reported that while I was downstairs the sound never stopped.  He is laying on his side with his back to the window air conditioner.  Suddenly, I caught motion behind him.

"A mouse-- no wait!" I stuttered.  Wings! I  realized.  "It's a bat!"  I dump my dirty clothes bag onto the floor and go to capture it.  "Wait!  No one is going to believe this." I say as the bat, begins climbing over Wes's glasses on the nightstand.  I grab my phone, capture the creature (phone and glasses as well), and run outside and dump it all on the porch, and then retrieve my companions glasses and phone.  A short time later, a bird swoops down and takes the bat (which I believe was injured in the air conditioner).  Another adventure in living!


Before we left, Kinsie Parkhurst and Becka Jacobson invited us see the tepee rings on the ranch.  We were excited!  Below are ancient rings where tepee once stood.

It's hard to see- but you can make it out if you try
The tepee rings overlook a lush valley with water that runs through it and the wind makes it hard to stand up.  Below, a single rose in the middle of a pretty dried out ridge.

Feeding the Baby Calves

Before we left Kinsie let us help feed the baby calves.  They are so adorable and the experience was so awesome!

Baby calves tug hungrily on the bottle





Oklahoma where the wind comes sweeping' down the plain

Enroute to our next location near Pawhuska Oklahoma, we crossed many of the places I frequented in my childhood.  It was 46 degrees and I opted for a sweater and long pants.  Yep... lots of snow.  A couple of nights at hotels along the way, and miles and miles of beautiful green fields in Colorado and Kansas.

Oklahoma

We arrived in Oklahoma yesterday!  All the way through Colorado, Kansas and Oklahoma lay fields of green.  Some corn was over 5 foot high.  The air was clean and fragrant with the sounds of birds (many beautiful melodies unfamiliar to me).  The humidity climbed making my nose and lips especially happy!

As we traveled, soggy fields with standing water, surprised us.  The news on Tuesday night spoke about one location getting seven inches of rain the previous day.  Wes took the opportunity to remind me that this wasn't Utah and pulling on to the side of the road might get me good and stuck.  About an hour later as we made our final approach to the ranch on a narrow dirt road,  two semi's were heading in our direction.  Wes carefully selected a wide area on the dirt road to pull over on and even at that--we flipped mud everywhere when we pulled back on.

The house we are staying in is also called the bunk house, but is all on one level.  It is very spacious compared to the last place we stayed in Montana.  It has central air and the exterminators had been here on a regular visit just hours earlier!  (Yay!)

The missionaries (already serving here) decided that someone needed to be here to meet us, so one sister stayed behind to wait for us.  She and another sister had purchased eggs, milk, a case of water, bread, peanut butter and jam (in case we didn't bring food).  The sister washed our sheets and blankets to freshen them up and made sure things were tidy.  They are the Johnson's from Ogden.  The kindnesses were so appreciated.  She made a spagetti  dinner with homemade sauce.  I provided a salad and another couple (from Alaska) came from the Kansas side of the ranch with dessert to welcome us.  It was so fun.

While we ate, clouds continued to build and then it poured!  Thunder shook the ground as rain pounded against the windows.  I have to tell you, I had a hard time concentrating on dinner with all that going on!

Country roads like this forever.  
Our GPS was like:  Turn right, turn left, drive 3 miles turn right, then right again...
Views of the bunkhouse and sunset

For those who bring their RV's to this mission, the ranch supplies hookups and this little house (they call it the bath house).  Inside is a full bathroom, laundry, fridge and freezer.


I am always amazed at the western decor.  Remember this old light fixtures?  Well, maybe not-- but remember the ones without the square dancers?  Our bed was super comfortable!!  


First Day 

Today we started the day with a missionary devotional which was given by one of the couples serving here.  They talked about patience and quotes scriptures from Romans and Alma.  We went over and helped one of the ranch sisters prepare lunch for the cowboys (who are busy getting cows ready to ship).  She had cooked up bison meat and together we rolled it into burritos with green Chile sauce.  YUM

Afterwards we saw the quilts that several are working on for several organizations.  They were beautiful works of art. 

We headed to the library at a nearby town next.  They had a pig, two goats, and chickens for the children to see.  Then a member and his wife came in from Pawhuska with a lot of different animal mounts, bison hides, coyote hides, raccoon, and many Indian artifacts.  He let the children talk about them and touch them and even try them on.  They loved it.  He said that the first Boy Scout Troop began in Pawhuska, Oklahoma .
Oh... did I mention that when it rains, it pours here?  Here is what the truck looked like after I drove it! Wes didn't complain, just washed a layer off. These are pictures of me making lunch with the other missionaries, and the beautiful docile cows.





Tours, tears, buried treasure and goodbyes

The building below backs up to a long scale.  Cows are herded  onto the scale, where they are weighed and the number of cows is divided into...